Tuesday, January 3, 2012

A Fresh Start

The tinsel has come down along with the holly. Ornaments have been carefully packed and stored for another year. Ribbons and wrapping paper have been shredded amidst oohs and ahhs of another Christmas. Now our thoughts turn to saying goodbye to another year and preparing for a fresh start to the New Year.

As you look back on 2011 I am sure there were many high moments as well as a few low ones. We can’t do one thing to change the past. 2011 is history. 2012 lies before us like an unwritten book filled with blank pages. The story has yet to be told.

I love the New Year. It is a chance to get a fresh start. Many will diet and make other resolutions. Some will succeed and others will fail along the way. For some of you reading this, 2011 was one of the worst years of your life. As you look back you are reminded of the trials, sorrows, and the pains that came your way. For some of you 2011 cannot end fast enough. That is the exact feeling my mother had in 1976. That was the year my four-year old sister drowned.

As bad as 1976 proved to be 1977 was a fresh start. Funny I cannot remember anything about that year other than that the Dallas Cowboys won the Superbowl I think. There is something about changing the calendars and starting over that brings hope. We hope the New Year will be better than the last even though from experience we know some years are harder than others. For instance in 1998 my mother died. To make matters worse she died on Mother’s Day weekend. For the rest of my life I will always associate Mother’s Day with the loss of mine. That was also the year I made a major career change.

I recently preached the funeral of my college roommate’s mother. She died just days before Christmas. 2011 will be a hard year to remember for my friend. He already had several other trials going on in his life at the time. His father died about five years ago and his brother died in 2010. All of his immediate family is gone. He has had a tough couple of years but 2012 is a chance for a fresh start.

2012 is the opportunity for a new beginning. We get to refocus our mindset for the next three hundred and sixty five days. We get to catch a second wind to keep enduring through the trials. We get to pick up our speed as we topple the mountains that stand in our way. This is the chance to reevaluate priorities and chart our course for the upcoming year.

Personally I need a fresh start. 2011 threw me for a loop. Major changes occurred that took me totally by surprise. I never saw those changes coming. My entire life changed. I left a loving and prestigious congregation and a home in west Texas to follow God in starting a church. We all hope for a Happy New Year me included. Last year came with some challenges. It is a time to begin again.

Maybe for you that means recommitting yourself to the task at hand. That is the case for me. I have recommitted myself to planting Faith Community Church. Perhaps that means rolling up your sleeves and continuing to tackle that task you have been working at for months and years. Many of you will see this as an opportunity to reprioritize and refocus your time and energies for the next year. You can get a fresh start to reconnect with family and friends. I will also work harder at the writing ministry God has entrusted to me with the publication of several books.

2012 is a blank slate. None of us knows what lies ahead just around the corner. Regardless of what this New Year holds we have a chance to start over. Roll up your sleeves. Hitch up your pants. Set your mind and resolve to get a fresh start. Make this the year you connect or reconnect to God. Make this the year you finally breakthrough. Make this the year you stay the course and end with no regrets. The starting line is before us. ‘Since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every encumbrance and the sin that so easily entangles us and run with endurance the race that is set before us.” [Heb 12:1]

Getting Through the Hard Stuff

Life is filled with hard stuff. Death. Sickness. Family. Work. There is no shortage of trials. Hard stuff happens to all of us. We all have to face our share of hardships and difficulties. Like I said earlier, life is filled with hard stuff.

Just this past week, this is just some of what happened. A beloved mother, grandmother, aunt, and sister died just days before Christmas. The day of the funeral, a man suddenly died of a heart attack in another city. The man scheduled to preach the lady’s funeral had to go away to minister to a grieving sister in law, who lost her husband and to a wife who mourned for her sister’s loss. On Christmas morning, I received a message that a beloved football coach, who brought a state championship and dominant football to my hometown for seventeen years, died suddenly after an early morning jog. The tough stuff of life is all around us.

The question is not if you will have to endure some hard stuff, we all have to. I talked to my great uncle yesterday,who endured another year without his sweet wife. He labors to breathe but still radiates faith and love for the Lord. He lives alone and nobody calls him to preach anymore. Life is not easy for this beloved man of God. The hard stuff of life happens to the rich and poor as well as the famous and the obscure.

While reading my Bible this morning I came across a couple of verses that brought a renewed sense of resolve to get through the hard stuff. “Those who trust in the Lord are as Mount Zion, which cannot be moved but abides forever. As the mountains surround Jerusalem, so the Lord surrounds His people from this time forth and forever.” [Ps 125:1-2]

This is pretty simple. Hard stuff happens to all of us. If our trust remains in the Lord, he makes us stand firm. The hard stuff does not move us. God helps us abide firmly, not only in this life but also in life everlasting. Where do you get this trust? I have found the greatest source of this trust comes from time spent reading and reflecting on the scriptures. These two verses out of Psalm 125 helped me today, and I bet some of you reading this are finding some help too.

God surrounds us. He helps us get through the hard stuff. The point we stumble in is thinking we know best how to get out of the hard stuff or how to avoid those times all together. When the hard stuff comes, if we are not trusting in God, our mind begins to play tricks on us. We convince ourselves of faulty information like God is not faithful or does not really love us. We begin to give into thoughts of despair while the trust needed to get through the tough stuff flees.

I am grateful for the people I have met in life who have stood firm like a mountain when they endured the tough stuff. I am talking of real life people like Henrietta Mears who lived her whole life coping with poor eyesight and the threat of losing her sight all together. I think of people like Chad who tragically lost his wife at a family camp, but his trust in the Lord helped him to stand firm. I am reminded of a man named Ray who knew he would die of cancer but did not shipwreck his faith in his last days. He stood firm and challenged family and friends to get right with God. I have seen many people get knocked down by the hard stuff of life. Rather than stay down they got back up again. Some who were abused and abandoned by supposed loved ones summoned the courage to love and trust again. Some who nearly lost every dime they had trusted God and lived to see better days.

We need trust in God no matter what things look like and even when we do not understand and see no way out. Trust is having confidence in God no matter how long you have to wait or how bad things appear. Remember God surrounds His people like a mountain. He strengthens us to stand firm. He establishes us so we are not moved. That kind of trust helps us to get through the hard stuff in life.

Sitting With the Savor Video Trailer

Just a quick update to let you know about our video trailer for my book. You can watch it by going to youtube.com. Type in "Matt Edwards- Sitting with the Savior" and you should be able to watch it. Please pass the word along. Right now the only place to get the book is online at xulonpress.com. Please pray for God to spread the word about this book. I will be holding book signings in the near future.

Matt